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by Angie Lewis
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Geez, Angie, I'm sorry, I'm the anonymous... i keep forgetting to click on my name...
I am gald someone believes porn is a sin. I have been struggling with dealing with the devastation when I found out my husband was looking at it. I cannot forget it and dont know how to forgive him and move on. Its destroying our marrige and my self esteem. HELPThe first thing to understand about this addiction is it has nothing to do with you. It is not because your husband does not love you. Never blame yourself for this problem. I must say that I do blame the Internet for some of this sex addiction problem going around society. When stuff is thrown in people's face day and and day out, we must continually pray that God deliver us from our weakness and run from temptation - if that means putting a filter on your computer, then do it. Ask God to help you to deal with this addiction so you may be of some support and encouragement for your husband. Email me and I will give you a website url that gives out a free e-book, workbook on dealing with this addiction. Take care and God bless! AngieI am interested in your free e-book dealing with this issue,THanks,Dorina
Dear Angie, Thank you for using your gift of writing. You have helped me today in my strugle to deal with pornography in my life. I will indeed ask God to help me have a new and clean mind so that I may use myself for his work. Again, thank you, MichaelMichael, you are very welcome. Never give up and keep praying - God does hear your prayers, but you also need to be "willing" to do your part. That willingness is what will help you each time you are tempted to go back and look. Ask God for the faith to trust Him. That is where most people fail in God - they don't trust God with their life but trust in themselves. You will see that once you give up your sin to God and humble your life to Him, He will give you the strength you need to conquer your addiction! In Christ, Angie
This articles great, this has helped me alot thankyou! Keep writing good stuff.Thanks! May God bless you and give you strength and faith to overcome. blessings, Angie
Hi Angie, very well said. Non-condemning and very Spirit-filled. As I see, it has already been used by our Father. I am praying for these people who have responded with an honest heart. May God conintue to bless your ministry so that all who need this information will find it. Blessings to you!
hi i have this same problem with my soon to be husband.he tries to do it secretly but leaves things for me to find.he promised he wouldn't do it again but he is he needs help or i'll be forced to leave him.please help me.we have 2 kids together and will this ever end???I feel so disgusted by everything and I can't do this anymore, i feel like he;s cheating on me.
All well and done; however, addiction is something that can't be controlled by the individual. It is beyond their grasp. Only the atoning sacrifice of the Savior, He who has overcome all, can help. Addiction to pornography is not something that can be overcome just through a desire to overcome, as in alcohol and drugs. It is a disease and the people who have the addiction are sick. They are not bad people, for there are many good husbands in good standing with society who are addicted. It is certainly sinful but it does not define the man. Nevertheless, to overcome the addiction takes constant work, prayer, and getting close to the Savior. The only way to overcome. It also requires constant vigilance. Nevertheless, the addicted should never be looked down upon, especially if he is working on overcoming, has accepted that his life is out of control, and works toward humbling himself. God bless.
God does not exist, unless you can prove to me that He does exist and I can touch him see him actually put my hand on his arm and if he can physicly hit me with his own damn fist then I will believe what I say is trueThe evidence is that we exist. That life and this universe in all its infinity complexity exists, is evidence to its creator. Belief is a personal choice. A man walking in a baron dessert who discovers wrist-watch on the ground has a decision to make. Should he believe this complex item made itself out of nothing, or is there a watch maker who is its creator? Does the man walking in the desert have to physically touch the watchmaker on the harm to believe in his existence?
Thank you Angie, I will take this message you wrote and help others that have the addiction of porn. I'm not addicted but have had the trouble looking at it often. I know what i did was wrong and it killed me to think that im a Christian and I know its a sin but yet still did it. I would ask God for Forgiveness but it still made me feel sick to know what i did. With your message ive learned to ask God to forgive me accept what ive done and pick myself up and walk it off and keep moving by faith and not by site. thank you
Im an 13 year old boy i looked at pornographyand i still do it and i cant stop i hate it. is there a way to get rid of it its in my mind and i cant get it out my parents said everybody goes it but im looking at your aritle and it says it is a sin. im so confused Plz helpHey Terrance,I;m not Angie but I have the answer for you. When you get a chance, I want you to get on your knees and ask God to forgive you so you can start of a clean sheet. But if you don't, that gives the devil to continue to do works in you. God said if you "rebuke" the devil, he shall flee! So, just ask God for forgiveness and rebuke the devil, and, if not already, give your life to the Lord. God said when a rightous man fall, he can get back up but that's only in God's kingdom. If you're still confused, write back and I can help!Thank you so much for this answer as it helped me as well...Actually the devil has no power over us,but we let him enter into our lives and once he is there he start do whatever he want to,he destroy our make us feel guilty for what we have done...but until we kick him out and rebuke him with the word of God he still keep coming back...thank you so much and God bless
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